To know Joey and Kerri is to love them. The news of both of them being diagnosed with cancer is heartbreaking. We've created this site so that you can get updates, offer help, and use the guest book to write thoughts of encouragement and love. The outpouring of love and support they are receiving is very wanted and appreciated, however there will be times in the future when the Lynchs may not be able to keep up with phone calls and visits. Please use this site as an alternative means to stay connected.


Saturday, May 1, 2010

Well, we are still here. The drain that was placed in Joe's gallbladder has been extremely helpful. It is draining well and relieving Joe of his pain. The only thing he feels now is the tube itself, which was inserted between his ribs. They told him he will get used to the discomfort...right...they are not the ones with it sticking out of 'em!! He has to have this in for about 6 weeks, but the considering the alternative, he's accepting this well. :) Waiting on the plumbing to start working again so he can slowly start eating. No food and water makes Joey a very unhappy man!! Looks like he will be here at EMMC for at least 2 if not 3 more days, so send us comments to read on the blog to help pass our time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We like it when we get to laugh, too!
The guilt lasted for about a minute, but last night I had a chance to go out with "the girls" and totally stepped into a different world for about 5 hours!! Thanks to my "Breast Friends" for a wonderful night out! Laughter is truly the best medicine, so the way I figure it, I'm now probably set for at least the next month!! I LOVE YOU ALL.
Caleb is with all of his buddies at SAT's today. Once he's out, it is off to the lake to put in the dock with the neighbors. How funny is this...the adults doing the work and Caleb supervising ::))
He is the only other person aside for Joey that knows the system order, so I guess we are at his mercy. After SAT's, I guess he deserves a little enjoyment, don't you think??
Here is to an uneventful couple of days for Joey so he can get better. I am off to Portland Monday and Tuesday for my pre-op appointments, so if he is sprung during that time, I guess I am leaving it up to brother Don and sister Jenny to take over. They are my rock(s). Do not know what I'd do without them.
God Bless and {{hugs}} to all!!

17 comments:

  1. We are keeping up with your life thru Mom and Dad. So sorry he has to go thru this, but the good news is after they take out the tube maybe they can use it to extend another part of his body!!!!!! Love you lots, Bonnie and Arthur

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  2. danny and I check up on you 2 thru this sight 2 and sometimes more every day . What a blessing to be able to keep folks up to date . Danny wpold like to visit when joe gets home or at the hospital if it is ok with you guys . we've been where you are . Take care and laugh a lot when it seems it is not a time to laugh !luv to ya , linda and danny

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  3. It WAS a fun night!!! Think we all needed to be with our BF's. Could we have laughed anymore??? I love all of you.....You can always chat about NPF's.....
    me

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  4. I'm trying to think of something funny....okay..okay...Remember when Cam was little and you bought Kerri the fur coat and you were taking her out that night? Kerri was coming down the stairs and Cam said..."Oh Mom, you look just like Cruella de Ville!" I told that story to all of my friends!!! Kerri I love you but it was so funny!!! Laura reminded me of that the other day when she called to wish me a happy birthday. She said she will always remember that story because it brings a smile to her face! I love you all...hope to be up there soon. Joey, you can always name your drainage tube...Sadie named her port, and when she had it removed she kept it because she said it was her friend. So Joey, it's your friend and you know it's with you.

    Love you,
    Deb (your sister trying to be funny)

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  5. Joe...

    The docks are all in... at home and at the camp across the lake. No fingers were lost and the water is freaking cold... never mind what Terry says!!! I am thinking there was definitely some shrinkage going on. Hurry up and get out of that hospital so we can go for a little cruise, maybe see if there are any fish left in this lake.

    Take good care, I'll see you real soon.

    Love, Tom D

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  6. I can't stop laughing long enough to come up with something that is suppost to make the TWO of you laugh!!!!! Exciting news that the docks are all in! YEAH for Caleb I like it when the 17 year old can be the boss and be in charge!!! Caleb, maybe Lynch Construction needs you to step up!! I bet that cool Jeep would look mighty fine cruisin around the job sites!! :-D Kerri sooo glad you got out last night with your gal pals aka BREAST FRIENDS (LOVE THAT) and had some fun!!! YOU so deserved that!!! Good Luck on Monday and Tuesday!! Joey, keep moving along.....I surely hope you have a couple, no make that a few, good, no make that GREAT looking nurses!!!! You guys ROCK!!!
    Love ya all!! Darlene, Mark, Joe and Jen

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  7. I hope Kathy saved the drawing...I think that would make a PERFECT t-shirt for next winter...think you'll be a Dolly by then? That might get us some drinks! Who needs Nita and Bunny on the deck when you can have you?! Last night was a blast!
    <3 Wilbur
    PS...IT"S RAINING!!!!!!!

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  8. Great the you Kerri, were out with your BREAST Friends! That meant Joey did not have to deal with 'THE LOOK'. That little bit has been implanted in my memory for ever. What a special moment to read about that little guy in charge of making sure that dock gets into the lake in the order it should. It is the same guy I poured water on seventeen years ago and he is in charge. Wow, what a moment and so special to remember. Positive thoughts and prayers continue.
    Love to all, Ian+

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  9. I hope your day is better , John keeps us up dated also about Joey , John thinks the world of you both , your visits have up lifted him also , thank you and God Bless you family Love Jerry and Donna

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  10. Sounds like a perfect get-a-way night for you and your girls and laughter is the best medicine. Ray says the dock looks awesome and that I'm going to want one just like it. He also says no worries about all the left over parts!

    Good luck this week , , , as always you'll all be in my thoughts and prayers.

    much love, Melissa

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  11. Hey Guys...Sorry to read about this latest setback but it sounds like it's under control and Joey will be home again soon. Kerri, I know you enjoy your family time but I know too that you enjoy being with your girlfriends. I'm happy to hear that you were able to have your BF time. Good luck with your appts. in Portland and I'll check on you when you get home. Joey...hang tough, these bumps in the road happen, they'll test your spirit but I know they won't break it. You're too tough a guy to let that happen. As always, you both are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

    Love you both;
    Don, Maxine & Mandi

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  12. Hey. Hope Caleb survived his day yesterday. I thought of all the Juniors who spent half the day inside (Sunny and 80). I'm so sorry Joey about the nausea/pain. Makes you want to hit someone I'm sure. Has anybody thought of a bullseye for your wall? You can think of your own picture for the center. I'm sure you can throw the darts from his bed..or hire someone to do it for you. Someone must owe you a favor or two at this point.
    Kerri, good luck tomorrow with pre op. We'll be waiting to hear of any news. Glad Cam is home to be with dad and Caleb is the man in charge. Hugs, L. Christie

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  13. REDO: By the way Joey, when I said choose your own picture I didn't mean a picture of you. I meant a picture of your own choosing. sorry. I need an editor.

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  14. Joey we are sorry to hear you've had a small set back but also sounds like you are on the up swing, and I don't mean swinging from the trees, any way hope all is well and Kerri Good Luck in the next couple of days!!!!:) Hope all is well and thinking of you both1

    Ray, Maria and Girls

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  15. What can I say that has not already been said. You have one great family and are blest with very special friends. God Bless each one . Love you all
    Uncle Art and Aunt Cynthia :)
    "Shout with joy to God , all the earth!Sing the glory of His name; make His praise glorious!Say to God How awesome are your deeds!:Psalm 66:1&2
    You are so right. Laughter is a gift the Lord has given to us. Use it abundantly Love you!

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  16. Hi guys so sorry to hear about Joey's set back,so glad he's back in Portland. Trill to hear you got to hang with your BF's Friday night Best
    medicine Girlfriends!!!!!!!!!!!Your in our thoughts and prayers all the time all of you.Love,hugs and prayers, love you Susie

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  17. Kerri and Joey,
    Just wanted to let you know we are still reading all about your progress and have you all in our thoughts and prayers! Just remember what you said in church that morning Joey...we know we have a rough road ahead, but we will come out the other side stronger than before...maybe I didn't get the wording exact, but you are in the rough patch right now and working towards coming out all the more strong in the end. Kerri we will be thinking of you too while you have your upcoming appointments. Take care guys and Kerri, Happy Mother's Day tomorrow!
    Love, Burt and Jane

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