To know Joey and Kerri is to love them. The news of both of them being diagnosed with cancer is heartbreaking. We've created this site so that you can get updates, offer help, and use the guest book to write thoughts of encouragement and love. The outpouring of love and support they are receiving is very wanted and appreciated, however there will be times in the future when the Lynchs may not be able to keep up with phone calls and visits. Please use this site as an alternative means to stay connected.


Saturday, May 15, 2010

The countdown is on...I guess I should call it the second countdown, right?? My time leading up to my departure on Sunday is pretty much booked. Tying up loose ends at Lynch Construction, meeting up with friends and (my vanity has to step in at some time...) my morning of pampering to have some waxing done and a manicure & pedicure! I wish I had thought of that all important massage as little sooner, but that is too late now.
Joey is home with the boys resting comfortably and is looking great! He still needs his down time, but he is doing much better at eating and getting around. I suspect that when I get home, he will be in a much better place both physically and mentally. I really do see him getting stronger by the day. One reason I know this is because of all of the "projects" he keeps drumming up...things we need to do this summer. If I were any of you, be careful when you offer to help us with things around the house...we just might take you up on it!! We have great plans for new gardens and perhaps even another dock for the kids boats. This will make our dock-in/dock-out seasons even more interesting don't you think??...(Tom, Ray, Bobby & Rick??) I promise, this one won't be a puzzle and no fingers will be lost!
With everything that is going on right now, we had one more unfortuate event take place yesterday. We had to put down our "special" dog Nike. He had yet another infection in his mouth and with all of the care and medication it would require to help him through, plus this being the third time this year alone, we decided that it was his time. He would have been 15 in June, so he certainly had a good ride. We are going to miss that goofy little guy. No dog was happier than Nike! Sandy (the stray we found 5 years ago) really doesn't get where he is, but she will adjust soon I am sure. I am not trying to be a downer here, but so many of you all know Nike and I am sure you would keep him in your heart for me.
Remember...ALL DOGS GO TO HEAVEN!
This will probably be my last post before my surgery. I thought of having the boys post for me, but God only knows what they might say, so I will be having my friends post for me, giving you all the latest. Joanne will be calling in from Portland and Casey will be typing away in Hampden! How lucky are we anyway?? Our friends just never cease to amaze me. They are always coming up with another way to make our lives easier. We (the 4 of us) thank them from the bottom of our hearts ::))
So, until the next time...
God Bless and {{hugs}} to all.

29 comments:

  1. It was wonderful seeing you last night and Joey does look great!! You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers each and every day. Love you much!! Patti & Maynard

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  2. And so sorry again about Nike!!

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  3. Kerri, Good Luck to you on Monday. We think of you and Joey on a daily basis and read the blog to keep informed. Your family is an inspiration to all of us. I'm sure the "boys" will "hold down the fort" until your return. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Jim & Alice Swett

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  4. Kerri-
    We have been faithfully following Joe's recovery, reading your entries regularly. You will be front and center in our prayers now. This weekend is the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer in Boston, and we have sponsored a good friend who will be walking with special prayers for you.

    We will be thinking of you; with your feisty spirit, we know you will be back in full swing in no time. All the best.

    Love,
    Kathy and Bob Casey

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  5. Prayers will be with you and prayers for your surgeon as he performs your surgery. My Mom was a cancer survivor and you are going to be one too!! I know how your boys feel and hope knowing how many prayers for the Lynch family will give them some comfort. I love the passage in Matthew 7: 7-11. I claimed that as my promise when I was very sick when my children were young. Great news that Joey is gaining every day and I am sure you are right that he will do even better when you are back home. God Bless you with a speedy recovery. Love and prayers, Lorraine T

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  6. Just back from my trip of a lifetime and thought and prayed for you and Joey each day... thanks to daily group mass with traveling priest companion... Blessings to your family and great support group.

    Nancy C

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  7. The Cookson Family is still thinking and praying for the The Lynch Family everyday! So looking forward to all of you being back home in Dedham, resting and healing together! Sorry about Nike....but yes ALL DOGS DO GO TO HEAVEN!! Kerri, enjoy your weekend! Joe, do not try to conquer the world while Kerri is gone!! :-) Once again....if anything at all, we can do for any of you...just ask!!!!
    Love and {{HUGS}} Darlene and gang

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  8. Thank the Lord for Joe doing so much better. Now keep him rested. Too easy to try to do too much.
    Dear Keri, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Monday is the big day. May you feel every prayer as a shield around you. I am sending aLL OUR LOVE TO ALL FOUR OF YOU.
    Uncle Arthur & Aunt Cynthia
    Psalm 91:1&2
    "He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.
    I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress, My God, in whom I trust."

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  9. Love you Kerri~I'll be praying for you!

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  10. So happy to hear Joey is getting better every day! Kerri, you are in our thoughts and prayers and of course now Nike will be too!!!!!
    I know you'll be up and around before you know it Kerri, but please don''t rush it....you will need lots of rest!!!! Take care and we'll be watching the updates.
    Fondly,
    Ann Look

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  11. Kerri,

    We'll be thinking of you this week and looking forward to reading positive updates! Remember that now it's your turn to take it easy!!

    Glad to hear that Joey is feeling better.

    The Farleys

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  12. Our love and prayers go out to you, Kerri. Sounds like they are being answered as far as joey goes. Glad he is improving each day. I can help with flower beds!!!!Lots of Love, Bonnie and Arthur

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  13. Kerri it was so comforting to me to be able to talk to you the other day. I know in my heart you are just going to do great and bounce back before you know it. I'm so sorry about Nike...he's playing with Savannah and all of the other puppies in heaven. Going for a walk across the causeway in a few minutes. The sunset was beautiful down there last night. Got to get home to watch the Preakness though. Glad your feeling better Joey. Give me a call when you're up to it.

    Love,
    Deb (sis)

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  14. Sorry about "Nike" he was such a good boy!
    Thinking of you all. This week will be over before you know it. Then comes the summer of recovery. Take Care

    Earl and Jeanne

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  15. Glad we got to have a chat at the P.O.....Be strong and have a tiny bit of you time between now and the surgery. You will make it just fine, I am sure of it....Love, Mel and Rick

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  16. We will be thinking of you the whole way. Soooo glad to see you yesterday. You continue to be an inspiration. Lots of love and hugs from the Christies.

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  17. Kerri, you're in our thoughts and prayers. We know you will be in good hands with a team you are comfortable with. Joey...we know you want to be with Kerri but you will be doing her more good by resting & getting stronger. She'll have a great support team with her in Portland and you'll be leading her support team at home. We'll be thinking of you both & waiting for the updates...We are sorry to hear about Nike...he had a great life with a great family.

    Lot's of Love;
    Uncle Don, Maxine & Mandi

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  18. Tons of love are with you both. All will be fine. Prayers and love ---Mickey

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  19. Good luck tomorrow we will be thinking of you.

    Ricky & Mary

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  20. My friend,
    Can you feel the love being sent your way? You will be on our minds and lifted up in prayer throughout the coming days. We love you.

    Charlie and Johnetta

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  21. Kerri we are so glad we were able to see both you and Joey yesterday. You have very broad shoulders and are such a strong person.Glad you could pamper yourself part of the day. You are all in our thoughts and prayers always. We will say extra prayers for tomorrow. You are in the best of hands in Portland. You will be back at the lake before you know it !!! We will check in on Joey. Tell the boys we are here if they need anything. Love you all and hurry back to the lake. Joey has a good nurse ( Jenny ) for the week. Listen to her Joey !!!
    Love Ya,
    Brenda & Bobby

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  22. Keep it sunny and 80 while you are in Portland and keep in mind the pictures you drew for us :) Sorry to hear about Nike :( Don't hesitate to ask for anything!

    Love you!
    Beth

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  23. Was happy to see you and Joey the other night
    Looks like he is getting better every day.
    Hope everything runs smoothly on Monday for
    you. Keep thinking nothing but positive
    thoughts.
    So sorry to hear about Nike also
    Take care of yourselves..
    The Nelsons

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  24. Thought about you guys alot during my round trip to Ellsworth this weekend. Did not however go 1A from Bangor, sounds like that was just as well. Good luck this week hope all goes as well as these things possibly can. Sunny and 80 seems to be a theme with you. Keep those positive vibes going.

    EK

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  25. Get 'er done! You'll be back home recouping and relaxing with Joe before you know it. You guys can sit in lawn chairs and be waited on. Too bad they probably don't recommend chemo and margaritas!

    Janice and Tom

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  26. OK Bunco Breast Friends--Raise those Cosmos high! Let's give Kerri one last toast before her surgery so, "Here is to out with the old and in with the new! We love you lots and can't wait to have you back on Friday nights with us!"

    XXOO,

    Allison

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  27. We're so glad to hear that Joey is improving every day. I'm sure it made leaving a little easier on you knowing he's doing well. You've all been in our thoughts all weekend. Our prayers will be for the surgeon on Monday. I hope you can feel the love coming your way! I'll be anxiously checking the blog for updates on how you're doing.

    Love and prayers,
    Janine & TJ

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  28. Thinking of you (both) EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY DAY and wouldn't have it any other way (hey, maybe I should write cards?!) Kerri, I know that today is your big day but soon you'll be on the dock and I can make lunch for the both of you. It IS sunny and 80 and everything WILL go smoothly and you'll be home soon. We love you and think of you and pray for you everyday... Renee' and Rick

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  29. It's very good to hear that Joey is improving daily. Our best wishes to you Kerri that your surgery goes well and you recover quickly. Hopefully you can both enjoy the summer weather with the boys soon.

    Jeanne and Chuck

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