Sorry this is so late, but between getting home really late last night and a very busy day today, we are now finally getting to you all!
Update on Kerri: Yesterday's appts. with the surgeons went extremely well. Dr. Lisa Rutstein (same doc as Joey) is my cancer doctor. She will be performing the double mastectomy then Dr. Brandon Claytor will be the surgeon doing my reconstruction. There were a couple of things I learned yesterday that I was not planning on, but realize needs to be part of the plan...I will have to have chemo...YUCK!!...and the reconstruction will take about a year to complete. I guess if I want 'em to look good it is going to take time, right?? My brother made me feel great about the chemo part...He told me that all I needed was a nice wig and a set of "Billy Bob" teeth and I would be good to go!! Thanks Lee!! Love your support LOL!!
My surgery will be taking place the week of May 17. This is good because that puts Joey 6 weeks out from his operation, so it looks pretty good that he will be able to be with me throughout my "ordeal." I know how I felt about being by his side the whole time he was in the hospital, so I can relate to his wants and needs to be with me. It is certainly a comfort zone.
Now, a word from Joey:
"Thanks for all of the posts and cards. They mean a lot to ALL 4 of us! I just got a card from a group of boys that I have coached from all different sports in the past and it really warmed my spirits. It was so touching to think these boys had such kind words for both me and Kerri.
It was hard not being able to be with Kerri in Portland yesterday, but between my brother Don and sister Jenny, they made sure I was pampered just fine!! I also had to endure a night without her, so Caleb decided he'd come lay with me and we just talked about everything. Caleb and Cam always make fun of me with my "life lesson" stories, so I tried not to make the conversations too deep!! We have always been able to talk to our boys about anything and this situation is no different, which makes it a little easier moving forward.
I am starting to eat better and went outside today for 3 walks. My goal is to gain some weight here, even though I've never been on the large side, but with all of the great food people are sending our way, it looks like I am well on my way!! I am still quite sore, but it is feeling a little better every day. Only on Tylenol for pain and am just getting my digestive system going again. Even got to have a whoopie pie before Kerri ate them all! Delicious!!
Our spirits are high and we wish you all well. God Bless."
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Wonderful. We have been checking the blog all day to see how Kerri made out. I can't wait until you can put the second "ordeal" behind you. So glad Joey may be able to be there too. If you don't mind I have a few words of wisdom:
ReplyDelete1. Don't underestimate the power of banana bread.
2. The "Annie" wig is available. (I personally think you would look adorable and maybe it would inspire you to sing....In the timely words of Annie...."Tomorrow, tomorrow, I love ya....tomorrow...you're only a day away.")
Sorry....Tom okayed this comment and said you needed to laugh. L. Christie
It is hard enough to deal with having to go through this without having to both be dealing with it. It is great to read your posts and your positive thoughts. Being positive is one of the biggest ways to deal with it. I can relate to the banana bread. Remember to eat whatever you want even if it's not good for you, calories are what count. Your taste buds are going to change so if one thing tastes good now, in an hour it might not be what you want. Keep up the good work and best of luck to you both! Lee K.
ReplyDeleteNite guys, love ya!
ReplyDeleteJenny
Once again, thanks for the update- although we have been wondering and checking, we are still amazed that you find the energy and focus to summarize the overwhelming details of all that is going on for both of you. Hope you are now able to relax at home, without having to be on the go at least for a few days- at home together, going no further than your new big window overlooking the peaceful lake... We are here ready to help however we can!
ReplyDeleteWith Love,
Shelley, Gary, Alex, Ian and Anna
Kerri, I might have my "Wilbur" teeth somewhere and the t-shirt that says "Child of My Heart". You can borrow them if you'd like and go to the Airport mall to sell macaroni necklaces!
ReplyDeleteLove, Jen
Joe and Kerri: Yes, have been waiting to hear an update- thanks for taking the time. Happy to hear that Joey will be able to be with you, Kerri. Important for both of you. We, too, didn't realize the effort and time you'll be putting into getting healthy again, Kerri. But, with the strength of your family and support of these many, many friends, you'll be fine. Can't wait to see you both and give you a real hug.
ReplyDeleteJeannie and Tony
Go Team Lynch. Sounds like the team is gearing up. It's a long race but glad to hear the positive attitude come thru in all your posts (humor as well) Keep it up. You guys are on my mind constantly. Best wishes
ReplyDeleteEK
Glad to hear the appointments went well. Loved seeing Joey for a minute while you were in Portland- he looks amazing! Actually, he basically ran up the stairs and I had to tell him to slow down so this pregnant belly could keep up with him!!! Love you guys! So nice to have you home!!! Casey
ReplyDeleteI think that Joey should shave his head while you wear the Annie wig....THEN go to the airport selling macaroni necklaces...Gt to love L. C.....
ReplyDeleteI've got the "Annie" cd you can borrow. Instead of selling necklaces you can do a medley of all the songs, of course at the Airport mall! ;-) J.
ReplyDeletePosted a note and it would not go as I had to go to cookies and delete lots of things. Not a clue what I am doing. So guess what I had written was not supposed to go. Glad you are home Kerri. you are in our thoughts and prayers and we love you lots.
ReplyDeleteJoe sure am hapy you are getting a little appetite back. The whooopie pies sure sound good. Amazing what tastes good. Keep up the walking and get plenty of naps.
God Bless each of you and keep you in His loving arms.
We send all our love ,
Aunt C & Uncle A.
P.s. Our organist Debbie had the sweetest wig. It fit her personality to a CapitalTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT her hair came back in curly and adorable. Take a girl friend and have fun picking one out . Had another friend just about your age who went home , laid down on the could expecting to get sick and never did.Another friend in Pittsfield has not gotten sick from her chemo and she has been on it for ages. She gets tired but not sick .Am prayng for that for you!!!!!!
Kerri, You are so cute-hair or not!!! And it will be summer, so sport the short..Glad you are feeling good Joey...You two are amazing. Love, Rick and Mel
ReplyDeleteKerri,
ReplyDeleteI just want you to know that I am thinking of you and Joey as you both go through this ordeal. As far as the chemo, after having gone through it myself, the anti-nausea meds they have now are fantastic. The one thing I will mention though, is that when they give some of the meds, they have may have to give you a little bit of steroid with it, and this caused me to have loads of energy(insomnia) and also was responsible for a few middle of the night visits to Walmart! Some people say they get lots of housework done, others paint or read... me , I decided to go on a Walmart roadtrip! Maybe not the wisest choice, but who else is open 24 hours? You'll do fine. I opted to wear hats instead of wigs, but my good friend and co-worker, who was also diagnosed at the same time I was, had a beautiful long blonde wig, that looked as good as her natural hair. It's all personal choice and what you're most comfortable with... Please feel free to contact me at anytime, should you feel the need. Be strong! Love, Lisa Hooke
I check the blog everyday to see how you are all doing. You know you are in our thoughts a prayers - all four of you. Be positive, be strong. You an awesome family and we miss you at church. Love from The Cadys
ReplyDeleteHi Joey, Keri and Boys, You both amaze me and the town of Dedham. Very glad to hear all is going well! Keri from what I hear Bald is in and I personally find it very attractive so wig or no wig you GO GIRL!!! Joey glad to hear you are getting your walks in and if you need a partner call me I would be glad to walk with you. I'll even put my slow sneakers on! HAHA! Here if you need anything.
ReplyDeleteBest to All
Ray, Maria and Girls
Joey and Kerri,
ReplyDeleteIt is really good to hear you are home and getting some time outside. We hope Kerri's surgery and treatments go as smoothly as possible. Glad to be able to follow your progress on this blog. Will be thinking of you both and sending prayers your way.
Jeanne & Chuck
Hi there!
ReplyDeleteWell Kerri, you pretty much know my story and how I dealt with it. I don't know Lisa Hooke, but felt like she was posting a comment using the same words I would have! Adivan worked VERY well for me for nausea. I have some very cute hats made of t-shirt material that I got from CCOM that are very comfortable if you would like to use them. If you need anything or just to talk, you know I'll be there 24/7. I would do anything for the both of you! Soon you will be looking back at all of this and me amazed at what you can conquer!!!!!! LOVE YOU!
Diane Jackson
Hey Joe were glad your home! When your ready for visits let us know. Kerry, Things are going to be fine your a strong beautiful person and we are praying for you!
ReplyDeleteLove the Libby's
hey heard you guys made home all safe and sound. just wanted to say that hearing you guys are alright and that joey is ok now means a lot to me. i hope you guys don't mind but i have been suckering in the stream by your house and i have been meaning to stop in and say hi but it has been really late at night and i didn't want to disturb at an late hour. but next time i will stop in and say hi.
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best of luck and for joey to have a speedy recover.
love you both Caleb O
Glad to hear Joey is home. I have been thinking of both of you and hopefully sending good vibes your way.
ReplyDeleteThank you for keep everyone posted.
Kathy L.
So glad to hear your home and doing well Joey!! Nice to know your plan Kerri!! Keep up the great work both of you! Looking forward to seeing both of you soon! Remember if there is anything we can do, let us know!!
ReplyDeleteLove, Darlene,Mark, Joe and Jen
I bet as soon as Cheryl hears you all are eating whoopie pies you will never run out!! They are the best....ask Joe B. Miss you all and am sending positive thoughts.
ReplyDeleteLove...Deb