To know Joey and Kerri is to love them. The news of both of them being diagnosed with cancer is heartbreaking. We've created this site so that you can get updates, offer help, and use the guest book to write thoughts of encouragement and love. The outpouring of love and support they are receiving is very wanted and appreciated, however there will be times in the future when the Lynchs may not be able to keep up with phone calls and visits. Please use this site as an alternative means to stay connected.


Monday, April 12, 2010

Joey actually got his bath in the bathroom last night! He washed his hair in the sink and even asked me to blow dry it :) I think he just liked the warm air blowing on him. He is so funny. He's sitting in the chair just smiling away. You would have thought this was an everyday event for him. Let me tell you, with all of the crap that is going through him and all of the stuff we make him to, he is just incredible. He hates to complain. Everytime he does, he's apologizing to us. You talk about inspiration, he is mine. Now I have to live up to his toughness!!

Joey's night was a little better. His sleep was so sound during the day yesterday, that the nighttime was more in and out. I, however, had the best nights sleep (here) yet. I slept 4 hours in a row! That felt like a whole night's sleep!! We got Joey up at 3 and moved him around. His left arm is so swollen that I asked what they could do about his IV. They moved it to his right arm (Don't worry Jenny, it went really well, unlike the past efforts to find a vein!!). They decided he needed a sonogram on his left arm because of all of the fluid build-up. So, when do they decide to come get him for this test? 5am! Yup, my thoughts exactly! I didn't even hear them come back they were so quiet. Dr. Rutstein came in at 7 and made the decision to remove his epidural to hopefully "wake up" his bowels. Once they wake up, the tube that runs through his nose to his stomach will be removed. That will be a day to celebrate...could be tomorrow even...Keep those fingers and toes crossed for us!! With the removal of the epidural though, this means constant movement for him and less pain meds. Not sure how this will go, but if he keeps in his mind that this tube is going to be removed, you just might see him dancing down the hall!!
Will post more this afternoon.

8 comments:

  1. Hi Kerri. Just remind Joey when he has the epidural removed it will be like double sessions - a lot of work, not much rest, plenty of "good pain" but in the long run well worth it. - Donny

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  2. Thanks so much for keeping us posted. I have to say that the tone of your posts and the things that Joe's hallucinates about speak volumes about how you are both dealing with one of life's toughest challenges. You find a way to report something positive and Joey hallucinates about NASCAR, warm fires and Christmas trees (as opposed to little green men)!
    As Dee posted earlier, Mark has made the road smooth for your trip back home. It will be a joyous day when the Lynch family is back home.
    You admire Joe's toughness. When he's not enjoying his Christmas trees:) he can smile because of your love and support.
    You both continue to be in our prayers. Please take care!!!!

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  3. Oh Kerri! I feel so much better about leaving now. And I truly think that this is the sign that you two together are the strength that will pull you through to the other side of this journey. And the fact that you keep seeing the humor is FANTASTIC! But you always do:)

    love you all

    jenny

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  4. And the hair thing...it's a lynch fixation hahaha


    jenny

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  5. So glad to hear things are going well. Remember "Inch by inch it's a cinch, yard by yard it's hard." Baby steps are a huge accomplishment.
    You two are in my thoughts.
    Kathy L.

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  6. Dealing with such an illness reminds us all how much we cherish our families and friends. You are surrounded by so many who love you and are praying for you daily. You got a good nights rest and Joey is sitting up today. Life is good! The loons were singing last night. They are calling you home. Love, Joanne

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  7. It is so good to hear all of the positive news!! Can't wait to see the Lynch4 vehicle headed back up the Upper Dedham Road! Love and prayers to you all.

    Allison

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  8. Hi Guys! I am so moved by this blog and the love that has gone into it! It is so very clear that you are dearly loved by many and you are so very blessed! Yes, Kerri my mouth did drop to the floor and it does each time I log on, and I tear up as well...You are both such an inspiration! Your positive attitude, wonderful sense of humor, love for one another, desire to perservere no matter what you have to face are remarkable qualities that tell me that you will be more than o'kay! We love you both, think about you lots and pray for you often! Kim and Tom

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